8 Gifts for First-Time Mothers (FOR THEM)
There is very little talk about what a woman who has just become a mother really needs, so here we are going to focus 100% on 10 gifts for first-time mothers , focused on their well-being during the postpartum period, a stage that is so little talked about.
And it's important to say: when we are first-time mothers, all of this is compounded by a lack of knowledge. We find ourselves in a new and overwhelming situation that, many times, no one warned us about.
We know that mothers need care , but often we are unaware of the solutions that already exist and that could make a big difference in their well-being.
We have been through this, and we have seen it in many women. From our experience, we want to share gift ideas that are really for them , that help them take care of themselves and feel better during this delicate stage.
In this article you will find:
What are the best gifts for new mothers?
The truth is that the best gift you can give a new mother has nothing to do with her baby, but with her time and self-care : from products that help her with self-care, to offering to do her shopping or help her clean her house during a visit.
Because what new mothers need is to feel supported and accompanied and because the real postpartum period is full of challenges that women are completely unaware of the first time they have a son or daughter.
What to give a new mother? Don't know where to start? We'll help you with a list of 8 gifts that she'll really appreciate.
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Home delivery food for the first few weeks
This is a real GIFT for new mothers who find that they don't even have time to cook. If your friend loves sushi, ham or some other food that she missed during pregnancy, you might consider including some of these delicacies that she missed so much.
The same goes if you want to eat healthy and can't even find the time to prepare a salad (it sounds like fiction, but it's real!).
Our recommendation, in any case, is that you talk to her beforehand and tell her: “Don’t cook tonight, I’ll bring you dinner…” And also, ask her: “What time is best for you?” Since it is likely that her schedule has changed with the arrival of the baby.
Postpartum physiotherapy session
Visiting the physiotherapist after giving birth is KEY to a good postpartum recovery. However, with all the baby care tasks, it is common for first-time mothers to postpone this visit until months after giving birth, which makes postpartum discomfort last longer as well.
That's why giving a voucher for a pelvic floor physiotherapy session is a great gift to help your friend take care of herself and recover. Now, to make it a GREAT gift for the new mother, you can offer to accompany her and look after her baby while she is in the physiotherapy session . This way you will also be making it easier for her to actually go as soon as possible. She will certainly be very grateful!
Postpartum kit: essentials for perineal care
In the postpartum period, the mother's body continues to support the baby: in her arms, when feeding him/her, when going out for a walk... That is why it is so necessary for her body to be well cared for and for her to be supported as well.
Because while you are doing all this, you are going through a period full of ups and downs, in which your body suffers from inflammation, pain and itching that needs care.
So if you want to give her a gift with a Wow effect, we recommend our Postpartum Recovery Kit that takes into account all the needs of a mother who has just given birth:
- Nutrition of your skin
- Soothe pain, irritation, discomfort.
- Intimate hygiene
- And the greatest possible comfort
Taking care of this stage with everything it entails is the best gift for a new mother. It will give her tools to feel better and recover as quickly as possible.
Help at home
With a new baby in the home, any help is insufficient. Tasks multiply and keeping the house in good condition seems like an impossible mission.
That's why a great gift for new mothers is to offer them help around the house: either by finding a trustworthy person who can clean, or by going yourself to lend a hand.
Having one less load of laundry to hang or having your shopping done for you is going to be the best gift for a new mom - she'll love it!
Taking care of your animals
If your friend has dogs or cats, she may be feeling guilty about not being able to give them the same attention she did before the baby arrived. A first baby changes the rules for everything in the house. However, animals still need care, and this is where you can set your friend free.
Maybe she just needs you to take the dog out for a walk in the evenings or take care of her cats' food. She'll be able to tell you that better than anyone. So if you're an animal lover, this gift will surprise her and make her very happy.
Sitz bath salts
Dead Sea salts are an excellent option for postpartum care, helping to relieve pain and promote recovery of intimate areas after childbirth.
In the postpartum period, the best option is to spray the pelvic area with warm water containing salts, known for their anti-inflammatory, disinfectant and soothing properties . They are especially useful for new mothers, as they help reduce inflammation, soothe discomfort and help heal stitches or tears.
Especially in the immediate postpartum period, we recommend using them with the peri bottle and avoiding the use of a bathtub to reduce the risk of infections. It is important to make sure that the water is not too hot, as the goal is to soothe the area without irritating it.
Taking care of the baby
Every mother experiences the postpartum period in a unique way. Some mothers don't want to be separated from their baby for even a second in the first few weeks, while others dream of taking a quiet, unhurried shower while someone looks after the baby for a while.
The best way to know how to help is to ask your friend directly, and offer to babysit when she needs it and feels ready. This gesture is one of those gifts that will be remembered forever, a precious detail for a new mother.
And although it may take a few weeks for him to warm up to your help, when he does, he will be grateful.
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Time for her
In the first few days after giving birth, time takes on a new dimension. Hours are mixed between caring for the baby and adapting to the new life. It is a period of intense emotions and constant changes, where every moment is both a challenge and a moment of deep connection with the baby.
That's why time is always a gift, and even more so for a new mother who suddenly finds that her alone time has disappeared.
You can try it and ask him/her, “What are you not having time for that you would like to do?” You will see how his/her eyes shine.
And most importantly: understand how a first-time mother feels.
The fact that postpartum care is not provided at a social level does not mean that it is not important.
For a new mother, this is one of the most important times of her life. And yet, she often feels alone, confused and exhausted … facing both physical and emotional challenges that are likely to catch her off guard.
So, in addition to what we have already told you, affection, calm and attention are undoubtedly the best gifts.
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